Sometimes I
wonder why this life is so cruel or do I say the people in this world. I
remembered six years ago in the month of July, I went for an interview in a
very reputable IT organization in Victoria Island, after about a week I got a
text that my interview was successful and was asked to come back on August 15th
by 9 a.m. for salary negotiations and final interview, this was going to be a
day after my POP so I had to travel from Igbokoda in Ondo State to VI that morning,
I reached the venue by 10 a.m. and
discovered the interviewer has left the office for a board meeting 50 minutes earlier.
I was not allowed to wait for her because she considered I was not going to be
serious with the job since I was not there at exactly the scheduled time. I
cried out myself throughout the day. Years after, I lived with this guilt and
this affected me because I made a very regrettable decision not to apply for
any more jobs owing to the fact that I could not forgive employers and myself
generally so I had to depend on menial jobs to survive. I also know of somebody
who wrote the 1999 WASSCE exam, got all his papers except chemistry which was
necessary for him as a science student to gain an admission, 4 years after, he wrote
GCE consecutively but the situation didn’t change. At a point he has to give up
and took a decision never to make any more attempt, he concluded, “I can never
make chemistry result’’. Four years later, there was a conviction somehow and
he changed his mind and decided to give another trial and of course got it
right this time and today he is a graduate of Information Technology and highly
being paid. Considering this scenario, this man got his vision achieved the 5th time of trial which means
the four years in between the 4th and 5th times was
wasted for nothing out of impatience, annoyance, disappointment, frustration
and inconsistency. On my own side, I sat down and blamed myself and counted all
I had lost if I had gotten that job then, but the truth is if I had only
persisted in my job search and applications, who knows I would have gotten
something much more better paying job, but at
a point I took a decision to put a stop to my naughty decision and start
afresh my job search and at that point I got a job with a multi national conglomerate
though still hoping for greater opportunities (forward ever).
LESSONS TO LEARN FROM THESE SCENARIOS/STEPS TO FULFILLED VISION
1.
Persistence pays no matter how long
it takes, be patient and keep on trying you will definitely get it. Thomas Alva
Edison born in February 1847 invented the electric light bulb after suffering
setback for about one hundred times.
2.
Put God First. Total dependency on
God brings relaxed, peaceful and hope filled life. Psalm 4:5. It is only the
grace of God that covers errors, add colors your effort and makes one achieve
greater things. The only way to do this is to accept the Lord Jesus Christ as
our Lord and personal savior and live in total obedience to His every
instructions.
3.
Take the battles beyond the ordinary.
Some people wake up in the morning and discovered a mark that was not there
before they went to bed. This is a proof of God’s word, which tells us not to
be ignorant of the devices of the evil ones. There are people that are ready to
make sure we do not progress in life, this is the main reason we must also be
ready to get provoked and fight back through prayers for it is the only key to
victory.
4.
No Word as Failure. It is only when
you admit you have failed, that is the only time you achieve failure, you can
only suffer setback which is permitted and then keep on trying again and again
in a better way than the previous until u get it but one thing is sure, YOU ARE
NOT PERMITTED TO FAIL…….
5.
Render services to Elders. This
should be done especially to those in the church especially those that can
render greater services back in one way or the other because you cannot tell
where your next help comes from.
6.
Be Creative. Develop sellable ideas
that could fetch you extra income because a good visioneer should have multi
sources of income.
7.
Keep on Matching Forward. In
military, the only command learnt but not being practiced is marking time, you
are only allowed to keep moving and marching forward no matter the obstacles
you see when taking the next step. BACKWARD NEVER FORWARD EVER.
…. Joshua Umoh
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